Postby Gentlegamer1 » August 5th, 2014, 4:54 pm
Amendment to my reply to Atarifever - as you point out, they are the same person, so that's not something targeted at one audience but being adopted by another. The kids of the 80s are the adults of today. My use of that meme pic is meant to be humorous, pointing out that those who claim games like Call of Duty are for 'more mature' audiences are missing the mark. The Pokemon portion probably falls into a similar form as the Atari VCS and NES examples... the adult/older teen enthusiasts of Pokemon games were probably initially kids who loved Pokemon, and have grown up with them.
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This dovetails with what C.S. Lewis wrote:
“Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”
An adult can non-ironically appreciate something meant for a younger audience, or even an opposite sex audience, but when you make your fandom a term of self identification ("brony") with accompanying costumes, etc., you are entering the territory of fetishism, and that is seen as instinctively unhealthy by well adjusted adults.*
We often use the term "gamer" to describe ourselves ("Gentlegamer *tips fedora*") in a casual way relating to our common enthusiasm for video games. Nothing wrong with that. But if we took that enthusiasm and self identification to the next level, we become the type of stereotyped, basement dwelling, arrested development person ("man-baby"), whose primary social activity is Xbox Live or hanging out in GameStop chatting with the clerk and advising customers on the purchases. That's when enthusiasm turns into a fanaticism that is appropriate to be criticized.
You can apply that analysis to any type of enthusiasm.* I'm a fan of Star Trek and Star Wars, but there are people in that fandom that are embarrassing to be associated with. They have gone too far.
*The only group of enthusiasts in our culture largely immune are sports fans.
Anecdote about age:
Once upon a time, I played a lot of Star Wars Battlefront. I played online multi-player, first on PS2, then on Xbox before the Xboxalypse.
While playing on Xbox, a younger person that I had played a few rounds with added me to his friends list. I thought he was 17/18... turns out he was 13. I was 30 at the time, and I instantly felt like me being in an XBL party chatting with him without his parents' knowledge was asking for trouble.