Re: Dads/fathers: when do you find time to play?
Posted: December 29th, 2015, 7:25 pm
I'm 38 with five kids 10 and under. My two boys play a LOT, every waking moment if we allowed them, and occasionally I'll play with them, but often I prefer to use the time to get other stuff done so I can have some free time when they are all in bed.
My wife is very easy going not emotionally needy. As long as her and I have a date night once a week she doesn't really care what I do after the kids go to bed. Sometimes well both watch TV, especially when there aren't any games that I am really into at the moment.
I think that is my biggest issue right now, actually. I feel like I really want to play something, but I don't even want to get started with a game unless I feel like it's going to rock my world. I have very little patience right now because my gaming time is significantly smaller than any other time in my life, so I have a bad habit of giving a game very little chance to win me over before I turn it off forever. But when I DO find a game that sucks me in, I absolutely cling to it. I finally got a PS4 and a copy of Infamous:Second Son, and I am absolutely in love with it and look forward to playing it all day while I'm working. Even if I end up watching TV with my wife until she goes to bed, I stay up just a bit later to make sure I get a quick gaming fix on Second Son.
Thursday nights I play COD Ghosts online with a friend until the wee hours of the morning, and if nothing else, that always gives me the rush that I still need.
My wife is very easy going not emotionally needy. As long as her and I have a date night once a week she doesn't really care what I do after the kids go to bed. Sometimes well both watch TV, especially when there aren't any games that I am really into at the moment.
I think that is my biggest issue right now, actually. I feel like I really want to play something, but I don't even want to get started with a game unless I feel like it's going to rock my world. I have very little patience right now because my gaming time is significantly smaller than any other time in my life, so I have a bad habit of giving a game very little chance to win me over before I turn it off forever. But when I DO find a game that sucks me in, I absolutely cling to it. I finally got a PS4 and a copy of Infamous:Second Son, and I am absolutely in love with it and look forward to playing it all day while I'm working. Even if I end up watching TV with my wife until she goes to bed, I stay up just a bit later to make sure I get a quick gaming fix on Second Son.
Thursday nights I play COD Ghosts online with a friend until the wee hours of the morning, and if nothing else, that always gives me the rush that I still need.