videogamecritic wrote: I think you misinterpreted me. I was not making a derogatory statement about women. Playing games is a trivial pursuit. Most women have better things to do with their time. Men and women are inherently different. When I was young the girls my age were very much into video games. I'm talking about my sister, my girlfriend, and all their friends. Many had consoles of their own. Once they got married and/or had kids, the interest in video games went away almost completely (save for the time-wasting, extraneous mobile game). Most of my guy friends on the other hand have maintained some level of interest in video games. And those who still have an interest can afford to spend some money on that stuff. I don't think my observations are an extreme case. - VGC
I didn't think you were being derogatory. I don't think anything deragatory has been said here by anyone in this conversation.
I'm just wondering if your observations might not jive with current reality. Many, many, many young women play Minecraft. Does this make them gamers? Maybe. If a "gamer" plays Minecraft and a non-traditional gamer begins gaming to play Minecraft, I don't think there's a way to differentiate, as we don't know what future behaviour will follow. A girl playing Minecraft right now is as much a gamer as me, because I don't know she is going to stop playing games after this, so there's no way to say she isn't a gamer. MAybe it's her first game, but there's no way to know if it will be her last one.
I don't want to do dueling antecdotes, but I have begun to rethink who counts as a gamer because of people I know in real life. I'm not arguing they are part of a trend (I don't have the data). However, they are making me question my own definitions.
One recently that has me thinking is the woman who does home therapy for my autisitic son. She has said a bunch of stuff over the last couple years that clearly mark her as outside of standard definitions of "gamer." For example, the other day me and my wife were having a silly discussion about Animal Crossing while I was playing it and she said "so, did you buy that on the app store?" Yes. I bought a Nintendo 3DS game, on the 3DS I am playing right now, on Apple's app store. She also plays lots of Farmville and games like it and doesn't really see the difference between those and the full games her son plays. However, the other day she was playing a Hidden Object game on her tablet. I asked about it (as it was NOT running through Facebook). She logged out of it and showed me where she bought it. The Bigfish Games app! She had A TON of them. Like tons and tons. Entire series of them. All bought for real money, from an online store front, with no microtransactions. Just full digital game downloads. Piles of them.
That got me thinking. What was the difference between her spending piles of money on Bigfish Games for complete, full games, and me downloading a game on Steam? She had series, so she was playing through games and their sequels. She had a publisher of choice. She knew the name of the company she was buying from (she said she had given them "way too much money" but in a good way). She downloaded and installed a digital storefront just for purposes of actually purchasing entire games. And her collection of digital downloads is probably larger than my Steam Library. And she isn't even waiting for sales, but is just flat out buying the games at asking price.
What then is the distinction that makes me a gamer and not her? Genre? Says who? Hidden Object games aren't that different than a classic PC Adventure game. Not reading about games? Well then are people who only play COD on a $300 machine, purchase all the season passes, put clans together, and spend 20 hours a week in the game not gamers because they don't follow gaming press in general?
I think I'm starting to question the definition of gamer in a lot of ways, so I don't find these results particularly hard to believe.